[ "Irritatingly well-meaning" is right. He's feeling perturbed just considering all the good-natured things she'll be doing once she gets her feet on the ground. From past experience, the people who do good things generally aren't doing them for purely good reasons. Though he does wish things weren't that way.

And even if he was welcome to ask, he was fundamentally held back by a disdain for questions in the company of those still in stasis. It would not only be rude, it would be outright crass. Something which he, thankfully, grew out of in recent years. ]

Not gonna take me with you? [ He quickly waves away any honest answer she could make to that, if she does have one. ] Just a joke. Take care - especially now that you're done here. The world's a cruel place, [ His eye glints at the pod holding her loved ones. ] This one's no different.